My Child, My Gift:

 A Positive Response to Serious Prenatal  Diagnosis

 A well-researched yet easily understandable, positive guide when you need to make sense out of what seems to be senseless.

"If you do not hope, you will not find what is beyond your hope."

---Clement of Alexandria

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"Of course, no one wants to adopt a defective baby." This was said with much emotion (and not much charm) by an older gentleman in a class at a local university. Since I had told the story of my daughter Karen, born with Down syndrome and a severe heart defect, the pro-abortion students were extremely vocal about the personal and societal justifications for aborting a baby like Karen. Hence the statement about no one wanting to adopt a "defective" baby. "Happily, sir," I told the senior student, "you are wrong. Even back when I had Karen, I found out from the National Down Syndrome Association that there was a list of people waiting to adopt a baby with Down syndrome. Just last night," I added, "I found a new website for matching prospective parents with children who had chromosomal and physical defects." The student refused to believe that this could be true. (Nancy, Karen's mom)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

LINKS

 

My Child, My Gift: A Positive Response to Serious Prenatal Diagnosis

Author: Madeline Pecora Nugent

Publisher: New City Press

These links are a sampling of the great deal of information available via the internet and are intended as a starting point for research. While the following links are either supportive or non-committal regarding carrying your baby to term, some of them may link to termination sites. Please contact us if a link is not working.

 

ABORTION (TERMINATION OF PREGNANCY, PREGNANCY INDUCTION TO END PREGNANCY)

 

Abortion Coercion

Abortion Information

Abortion Quotes

 

ADOPTION

 

Adoption Blessings Newsletter

Christian Homes and Special Kids

Jewel Among Jewels Adoption Network

Special Needs Adoption

Tree of Life

 

ANENCEPHALY

 

Anencephaly Blessings from Above (you will need a yahoo email ID and password to access these pages. Obtain one by going to yahoo.com)

Anencephaly Information

 

AUTISM

 

Youth Advocate Programs, Inc.

 

BLINDNESS

 

KNFB Reader Hand held device that reads text and then translates it to audio

 

BREASTFEEDING

 

La Leche League

 

CARRYING TO TERM

 

A Child of Promise

Be Not Afraid  Stories and photos from parents who carried to term despite a serious prenatal diagnosis

Carrying to Term pages

Carrying to Term after Negative Prenatal Diagnosis

Carrying to Term Support Pages Sharing board for those carrying to term.

Prenatal Diagnosis: Information and Stories

Prenatal Partners for Life

 

CLOTHING

 

God’s Tiny Angels Hand crafted clothing for premature babies

 

DEAFBLINDNESS

 

A-Z to Deafblindness Many resources for those who are both deaf and blind

 

DISABILITY

 

Alliance for Technology Access

Disability Is Natural

Mobility International USA

National Dissemination Center for Children with Disabilities Information on USA federal laws for children with disabilities. Catalog of free resources

Open Directory on Children with Special Needs

Thumbs Down to Pity (on line video produced by a young man with a disability)

 

DOCTORS (these groups can help you locate doctors who will support your decision to continue your pregnancy)

 

American Association of Prolife Obstetricians and Gynecologists

Catholic Medical Association

Christian Medical Association

Pro-life Maternal-Fetal Medicine

 

DOWN SYNDROME

 

Down Syndrome Resource Center

Einstein Syndrome Parent support for Down Syndrome

National Down Syndrome Society

 

DWARFISM

 

Little People of America

 

FEEDING

 

Feeding by G-tube

 

EDUCATION

 

IDEA --Individuals with Disabilities Education Act

Learning Disabilities Association of America

 

GRIEF

 

Baby Steps

Claire’s Friends

Elizabeth Ministry

Empty Cradles

Morning Light Ministry

My Forever Child  Keepsake items

Hannah's Prayer Ministries

Shrine of the Holy Innocents  Click on the Shrine link in left link column to memorialize your baby
 

HEART DEFECTS

 

Congenital Heart Information Network

Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome (HLHS) Information

Little Hearts Support for families of children with congenital heart defects

 

HYDRANENCEPHALY

 

Rays of Sunshine Information and support for families of children with hydranencephaly

 

HYDROCEPHALUS. See Spina Bifida and Hydrocephalus Category below

 

LIMB DIFFERENCES

 

First Step: A Guide for Adapting to Limb Loss

Helping Hands Foundation Support groups for limb differences

Youth in Motion Magazine for youth with limb differences published by the Amputee Coalition of America

War Amps Champ Program

 

LINK SITES

 

Disability Resources on the Net

Our Kids -- For Parents of Kids with Disabilities Website of helpful books on various conditions and links to many online sites on various disabilities.

Special Needs Children Site

 

MEDICAL INFORMATION

 

Medical Dictionary

National Library of Medicine Data Base Has many medical journal articles that can help parents find the latest treatments for specific conditions, as well as the physicians who perform them.

 

MILK BANKS

 

To Donate Breast Milk

 

MORAL TEACHING

 

Charter for Health Care Workers, Pontifical Council for Pastoral Assistance to Health Care Workers, Vatican City, 1995

 

PARENTING

 

Chromosomal Deletion Outreach  Matching parents of children with chromosomal deletion.

Exceptional Parent Magazine

MUMS Putting parents in touch with one another

National Respite Locator Service

Parent Advocacy Coalition for Educational Rights (PACER)

Parents Helping Parents

Soul Supporters

Technical Assistance Alliance for Parents Centers

 

PERINATAL HOSPICE

 

Alexandra's House Perinatal hospice for dying infants and their families.

Hospice Care Network

Perinatal Hospice Information

 

PHOTOGRAPHS

 

Baby Angel Pics This company can touch up photos of babies whose bodies have been disfigured by early death in utero or by the delivery process.

 

PRAYER

 

Disabilities Ministries Christian, nondenominational prayer for people with disabilities.

Prayers for Life Prayers for families experiencing problem pregnancies.

Strength in God Christian spiritual support for people with physical disabilities

 

PROBLEM PREGNANCY HELP

 

Pregnancy Care Centers

Pregnancy Help Center Referral

 

POTTER'S SYNDROME

 

Potter’s Syndrome online support group

 

RARE DISEASES

 

National Organization for Rare Diseases (N.O.R.D.) Information plus rare diseases data base. Includes organization list.

 

SCHOOL

 

National Challenged Homeschoolers Association Network NATHHAN Christian families home schooling children with disabilities.

Individuals with Disabilities Education Act

Love and Learning Education at home for children with differences.

Special Reads for Special Needs  Reading and money management instruction for children who need extra help with these skills.

Wright's Law Special education resources and advocacy.

 

SIBLINGS

 

The M.I.S.S. Foundation Helpful resources for siblings dealing with death.

Sibling Support Project Materials for siblings of children with differences.

 

SPINA BIFIDA AND HYDROCEPHALUS

 

Hydrocephalus Foundation, Inc.

Spina Bifida Association

Spina Bifida Family Support

Spina Bifida and Hydrocephalus Association of Ontario (SBH [Spirit, Breakthrough, and Hope])

 

TRISOMY

 

Living with Trisomy 13 

My Little One (on line movie about a baby with Trisomy 18)

99 Balloons (on line video about a baby with Trisomy 18)

Rainbows Down Under Information and support on many Trisomy conditions.

Support Groups for Chromosomal Deletions Groups for every chromosomal deletion known.

S.O.F.T. Support and information on Trisomy 13, 18, and related disorders.

My Child, My Gift: A Positive Response to Serious Prenatal Diagnosis

To contact publisher, please email New City Press

To contact author, please email Madeline Pecora Nugent

 

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